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Friday, 4 January 2013

Tips for Wedding gifts




Combine Imagination, need and common sense, and you have perfect gift for the couple

It is ideal to start planning gifts for the couple to be married, as soon as you receive an invitation. In most Indian weddings reception is gift time, but recent modernity has brought changes to that. Chose something the couple may need if they are moving to another town, or if they already have all the needed items, then its time to put on the creative hat.

Modern weddings and Registry

 Some couples send out a registry of gifts they need and the guest tick on the ones they want to give. This way no gift is repeated and couple are absolutely delighted to receive what they want instead of some random one. Also some couples prefer gifts being shipped rather then present on wedding, in that case remember to address it with appropriate name, if sending before wedding, of course it can be sent to one of them, as they are to be united anyway. If after wedding, gift could be addressed to Mr and Mrs. Happy couple and if the bride doesn’t change her maiden name it should be addressed to both their names.

Non-Registry Wedding

For a non- registry wedding, one can really chose a good gift, if extra effort is put in. If the couple were moving to another town, they would need lot of stuff to settle down and would really appreciate gifts that could be bought to use. If the two have been living together or in case one wants to give something creative and personal. There is an unending list, a vintage wine bottle, or some really creative album make, flowers with gift voucher to their favorite store, archaic piece of jewellery. It really depends on one’s affordability and closeness to the couple. Even a holiday package is an awesome gifting idea.

Right time to send the gift

In Indian weddings, gifts are a way to flaunt affection at the reception time, so its perfect time to gift the couple, though many modern couples chose gifts being mailed to them, as they rather have a happy carefree wedding without bothering the plentitude of gifts. Money vouchers, jewellery and decorative items are some common type picks for such weddings.

Don’t know what to give

If stuck in an awkward state, not knowing the right gift, the gift money card or cheque can come to rescue. In some traditions, it is an authentic and olden way of gifting, so the couple would really appreciate the gesture especially when you are not personally close to the two. Gift vouchers are an alternative too. If the couple haven’t sent out an registry and if they are picky in taste in general, a gift voucher to their favorite store is a good idea.

It is one time to show how delighted and happy you are with the couple’s union and a way to express your joy and best wishes, spending some time on planning on the gift and mode of conveyance to the couple is required of the guest side.

Tuesday, 18 December 2012

Oh!you thought Lohri was a festival about crops?


This one’s for all non-lohri celebrating people.Every 13th Jan when we light a bonfire ,a lot of people join us simply because the festival is so full of joy.Throwing peanuts in the  bonfire,the singing and dancing around it and much more. But here’s something I noticed,alot of people think Lohri is celebrated because “it has something to do with crops”.Well,i  myself lived under that misconception for  a very long time and realized how ignorant we people are, when I read  up a bit.
SO ,let me tell you,Lohri is celebrated in Punjab,Some parts of harayana ,Himachal and Delhi on the eve of the winter solstice .It is  believed that Lohri night is the longest night of the year and on the day after Lohri, day light is meant to increase. Though  scientifically, the shortest day of the year is around December 21–22 after when the days begin to get longer. So that would mean ,winter solstice begins on December 21 or December 22 and Lohri ought to be celebrated a day before that.But according to the  Bikrami calendar, Lohri falls in the month of Paush i.e. around 13 January,hence that is when its celebrated.
Here are some Interesting facts i came across :
1.Lohri is a festival dedicated to the end of the Winter season whereas Teej  is dedicated to the rain/Monsoon season and Basant is dedicated to the Spring season.

We have heard of all these festivals and fasts thanks to our hindi serials but atleast now we know why they'r celebrated.

2.Also,Sundar Mundriye  is the song that is sung while dancing around the bonfire.Movie lovers would remember it from the movie Veer Zara.

3.The song mentioned above talks about a famous legendary Rajpoot hero of Punjab,Dulla Bhatti.Do not forget to go through his history ,its quite an interesting read.


Here's how the song  goes:
Sunder mundriye ho!
Tera kaun vicharaa ho!
Dullah Bhatti walla ho!
Dullhe di dhee vyayae ho!
Ser shakkar payee ho!
Kudi da laal pathaka ho!
Kudi da saalu paata ho!
Salu kaun samete!
Chacha gali dese!
Chache choori kutti! zamidara lutti!
Zamindaar sudhaye!
Bum Bum bhole aaye!
Ek bhola reh gaya!
Sipahee far ke lai gaya!
Sipahee ne mari itt!
Bhaanvey ro te bhaanvey pitt!
Sanoo de de Lohri, te teri jeeve jodi!
(Cry or howl!)
Translation
Beautiful girl
Who will think about you
Dulla of the Bhatti clan will
Dulla's daughter got married
He gave one ser of sugar!
The girl is wearing a red suit!
But her shawl is torn!
Who will stitch her shawl?!
The uncle made choori!
The landlords looted it!
Landlords are beaten up!
Lots of simple-headed boys came!
One simpleton got left behind!
The soldier arrested him!
The soldier hit him with a brick!
(Cry or howl)!
Give us Lohri, long live your pair (to a married couple)!
Whether you cry, or bang your head later!